What pursuing “Mr Right” taught me about Success and Failure

What pursuing "Mr Right" taught me about Success and Failure

Not only is this week the week of love but hey, it’s Valentine’s day and it’s got me thinking about important lessons from relationships especially what I’ve learnt in the pursuit of “Mr Right”. As they say, the way you do one thing is the way you do everything, so that means you can learn about success and failure in other areas of your life from the way you do relationships. So in this post, I’m sharing some of my learnings with you. You may not know this but I met my ex-partner when I was 18 years old and Continue Reading →

“Vision Boards” in the Bible

"Vision Boards" in the Bible

Yesterday I discovered two things, firstly an example of “Vision Boards” in the Bible and secondly that Vision Boards were made popular by the book ‘The Secret’. Before I realised either of these two things I had already been using visual imprinting for several years and had seen it work in different areas of my life. As such I have a good scientific basis of why and how it works so felt very comfortable using it in the work I do with clients. For many years mainstream Christianity has shunned the use of vision boards because of its association with Continue Reading →

Your Biggest Why and Breaking through Resistance

Breaking through the dam of resistance

I’ve had wake-up calls before. For instance, falling ill changed my life but it took time and I went down really, really low before I could even begin to see any light at the end of the tunnel. Yet, as much as I have grown and changed over the years I still struggle with resistance. I hear people say that you need to have a BIG WHY in order to overcome your resistance, I get that. But let’s take a moment to think about what resistance really is. Resistance is defined as the impeding or stopping effect exerted by one material thing Continue Reading →

How I’m using my LifeScore to Transform my 2018

Joshua 1:8

I recently took Michael Hyatt’s LifeScore Assessment, I’m a sucker for quizzes, tests and assessments at the best of time so I couldn’t say no to trying this one and actually, I thought it was intuitive, simple and had a good level of ‘face validity’. So in this post I’m going to share a little bit on my results but mostly on what I learnt from them, how it’s going to inform my 2018 goals and why I think this is a great starting tool to help you make amazing shifts in 2018 (and no I’m not an affiliate, I Continue Reading →

Pursing Change vs becoming the Change

Pursuing change vs becoming the change

A lot can happen in 365 days, in fact, you’ve probably realised at some point that your whole world can change in just one moment!  That’s why I’ve been thinking a lot about change and readiness recently. For example, the Bible talks about being transformed by the renewing of the mind and the re-creating of the heart, and likewise that our body prospers just as our soul prospers. All of this points back to a need to change at an intracellular level before it happens on an extra-cellular level, in a nutshell, it means that you are first required to change Continue Reading →

The Gift you secretly want but you don’t

So often we find it's the very things that we want the most that we have a nasty habit of running away from

Who doesn’t like to receive a gift? Not you right? Well, how sure are you about that? Because I’ve noticed that it’s often the very things that we want the most that we have a nasty habit of running away screaming from. So you want to see a change in X and you’ve been praying for it, but how about those nasty self-sabotaging behaviours that you have been acting out to subconsciously push it away? Uh-huh, you didn’t think about those, did you? Yes, it’s true, we can often be our very worst enemies when it comes to receiving the Continue Reading →

3 Steps to get what you REALLY Want

3 Steps to get what you REALLY Want

Confession time, the last two years have probably been the toughest of my life because I came out of a long-term relationship that had supported me through some of my worst moments. I had to discover myself and my strength in a much deeper way. had to lean on YHWH in a way that I had never had to before, had to make decisions from a whole new place and none of it was easy. But saying that, it has also been the season that has caused me to manifest the resource within me to start again from scratch and Continue Reading →

The Key to More Joy in your Life

“Until now you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full.” The Bible speaks of a FULLNESS of Joy because this is YHWH’s desire for us. It’s not a partial joy here and there but a deep and complete sense of feeling good. How do we experience this?

“Does it really work?” vs “How can I make it work for me?”

Does It really work or...?

This post is a post of two halves, you might have already read the first half if you’re in my mailing list or FB group so you can skip to Part Deux. If not then continue to read away and don’t forget to let me know your thoughts. Part 1 – Does it really work or…? You wouldn’t be the first person to have thought to yourself, Does it really work or…? I actually think it’s natural. Yep, it’s natural to look around us and wonder “does that/this/it really work or is it just…

Self-knowing as the Key to Clarity in Life and Purpose

Self knowing is your inner guidance system

Throughout May I have been doing a series on re-discovering your voice. I started it because a friend of mine had commented on how naturally and authentically I present my “brand” to the world, nothing “salesy” yet still attractive and aligned to who I am. I am not a business coach and don’t pretend to be but I guess what she was saying that in a space where people can definitely come across one way and be another, to have a brand that is authentic, congruent AND still attractive to potential clients is often not the case. You’ve probably heard Continue Reading →